Tuesday, 2 September 2014

Being "ME"

Hey everyone I'm back with my next blog post after a really really long time.First of all i want to thank you all for the review of the previous blog and appreciation. :)

Most of my previous blog posts are inter-related to the relationships with people who are connected to us in our life. So this time it's going to be only about being yourself, expressing yourself, making a choice for yourself- its all about being ME.

The first time and the only time i guess we have completely been ourselves is when we were kids, all carefree, living life to the fullest, no tensions, no baggage's or any kind of self pity. I know many will tell that they are still enjoying their life, but i want you to ask yourself when was the last time you looked at yourself and said your the best? Did something out of your character like a new hobby or work only to see change for once in life? When was the last time you did something thrilling or faced your deepest fears? None or might be something is your answer?

Well, it's how life has become as we are busy running around to prove ourselves in front of everyone, forgetting that it's YOU who needs to be happy from within of what you are doing with yourself, with your life. It's a fast phasing life and everyone are busy trying to attain the highest position or say constant competition to prove that your're the best, but, Is that the success which is gonna give you the feeling of being the best? Of course not, unless and until its your dream your chasing. There is stereotypical professions you choose not by choice but by not given any other choice. Might be your once hobby is what you are passionate about in life. I'm not against educating yourself, off course that's essential part of life and so is your dream and desire for life.

Why not for once give it a try? Something like discovering yourself and not proving to be someone else. You don't have to be a famous personality from any field but be yourself as your uniqueness brings out the best in you. It's not about the language you speak or which family you belong to or what race you are or anything for that matter that defines you, but it's your hidden talents and the ability to enjoy your life, your way. I know there are 'n' no of 'x' factors that comes as an obstacle in many people's life but is it not worth giving it a try in-spite of all this? for once running behind your dreams and being in a life you wish to be. Five years down the line from today is this what you dream yourself to be like? Is this your plan? If yes, don't ever chance your way. If not, then it's high time you buckle yourself up to make decisions for yourself. You can't make people around you happy if you are not happy from within. When you walk your legs balance your body, the same way your dreams, your ideas, your creativity, the zest to lead a content life is what makes a balanced living. Let go of the emotional baggage's or self pity or analyzing self worth. It's not what you were born for and god appreciates each one of us for who we are and what each one of us posses.

Ending it on a lighter note, Do something that makes you happy each day, Enjoy doing something really silly, Be the reason for someone's smile or encouragement and for yourself too, If your hobby is not your passion still do it once in a while because you once enjoyed doing it and it's worth it, Chase your dreams and desires not success and competition, Make time for yourself to collect your thoughts, analyze the things you did and want to do, Be there for someone who'll need you, Go on a long drive or a trip, Face your deepest fears, Enjoy your life to the fullest, Be good and do good but the end of all be YOURSELF. Life is too short to hold anything against anyone but long enough to lead a happy life and do what you always have wished for. Remember, wishes are made to be turned into reality someday.:)

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