Hey I'm back with my next blog and the last one of this year and for many more to come over the years.
This question is something that is bothering me in many ways and I know all have different perspectives and I whole heartedly respect that. Neither am a feminist nor have a drive to prove masculinity and its importance. I am just a human being.
We fight for right of a woman or a man's right. How many have actually focused on the whole agenda called basic human rights. Even in the media or any other portal it is said a girl/woman did this or a boy/man did that. Why can't it be a human helped another human.
Segregation is important at various levels when it comes to being gender oriented. But why put the unnecessary pressure? Can't all work on the same ground level?
Coming to my topic, all men are expected to behave in a certain way as it is said to be that, men are supposed to assertive, tough and focused on material success. I agree on the fact that the roles are being defined from very early stage, but there is a change in how the work is shared by both men and women in recent times.
Then why when a man does a mistake, the entire clan is blamed for it? Sometimes they don't even get to prove themselves. why ? Many men are slaves for the societal pressure and the way they are expected to be. But why?
If a boy is born, he become the bread owner as decided. Why don't you expect the same from a girl and make her independent or give equal rights. Or the next thing that a certain age to be married. Why? Because he will know responsibilities and will be tamed? Really?
What if he never learnt ? What about the pressure he goes through? or the pressure that stresses other relations?
Even men do have feelings, they can't always be tough as expected and they do cry, may not be in front of us but in own confides of their heart. There is absolutely nothing wrong or to be ashamed of it. They are as human as we girls are. They do go through the changes in life in the same way we do. As much as marriage brings in the change of letting go of our family and starting a new, they are also starting a new life with a new responsibility. Then, why not share and understand their side of the story as well. They every right to pave their way in life and decide their future and commitments and not only on what is expected out of them. Fortunately, or unfortunately our law is biased towards women and I have known the group of men that are hidden from societal knowledge when they fight for rights of baseless allegations of some women and their suffering. Give them a benefit of doubt as well. There is always more to what meets the eye.
Ending this on a lighter note, think twice before you judge a man, be it your father, brother, husband or friend. They may seem to be as scared to be judged as you are. Think in their perspective and understand their struggles and sacrifices. Appreciate their efforts and be grateful for all that they did for you in any way throughout your life.
P.S. No offence to anyone and has nothing to do with anyone who has suffered in the hands of some men.
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