Illusion or Reality

First of all thank you one and all for the overwhelming response to my first blog post.

Here is my second post especially to those who are in illusion and not in reality.

Luckily right from my understanding years of life i have had an open minded thinking for everything i chose and decided in my life. I had the liberty to choose the way my thoughts would be about things, living or the way I want my life or the people around me to be, with elders constantly telling this is right and this is wrong and now choose your way. Touch-wood i have been lucky enough to choose the right ways most of the times and sometimes the bad ones. Not that i complain as its given me a lifetime lessons. With passing years i have realized no matter whose genes are passed on or how you have had your upbringing, at the end of the day we have our own thinking, which by default doesn't really come out until you get a blow of what reality is. Being a psychology student, it's a fact i have realized, if someone close to you says, for example, that they don't like the color orange because of so and so reason, you start to see the color in their point of view, though you like that color, their perspective on it subconsciously becomes your perspective too. In simpler words, you start having their thoughts as your illusion of disliking it than having to agree your liking in reality.

In same way there are lots of incidences where you are forced to think whether you follow what you been taught all along or to go ahead with your thinking and take a risk. Why I say risk is because when you choose to see thoughts in your way, not everyone accepts it with open arms even though they know you are right. Why? Fear of being judged by your loved ones or I may say what society might think. I am not saying they are wrong in their thinking or what you have been taught all along is wrong, they are right in their own ways. All i'm saying is choose your way, your perspective to think and do what you like than force yourself to be what your not. If you are sure whatsoever kind of relationship you share with someone is not beyond your limitations, if you are sure some decisions you make is for your own good that will change your life in a good way, if you are sure a single decision or help is gonna do good to someone and so on, go ahead with it without worrying of the consequences, because it's better to be in a reality of your thoughts than being in the illusion created by other's thoughts. It's all about living up-to what you believe in than what you are forced to believe in.

Ending this on a lighter note, its ok to ask someone their advice when you're in confusion but be sure that it's your decision at the end. Everyone's born for a purpose and every person is different from the other, so their thoughts can be an advice to you not your decision. Hope this makes an impact to your thoughts.

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Poetry In Reality

Hey everyone, a warm welcome to all those who are going read my first ever blog.

As this is my first post i have various topics running in my mind to share and know the views on it. After a lot of thinking i decided to post on something which is always been my personal space to my views on how i see my life at times i.e., POETRY.

Life has always given a reality check whenever i have tried escaping the reality to a world where my poetry is based on my whole new dimension of seeing life which is void of cruelty and hatred and only based on how it is supposed to be. As children we have heard a lot of poems and even learnt them but how many see as to why it is written in a form of poetry and not a story? Or for instance describing something as simple as a rose to the strength and femininity of a woman ? In today's life we hardly even get time to sit and have a peaceful cup of coffee let alone enjoying the essence of it. Though its completely agreeable that not everyone can write a poem but is it not worth it to value even the tiniest moment we miss to acknowledge in life. For instance, when we read a line, her eyes are like twinkling stars and smile as a blooming flower, we realize how much we miss out in life busy cribbing of the other things we cant posses. The rising of the sun to pleasant evening walks, from a child's carefree laughter to a teenager's sheer joy of first success,from a new born's first sight to a its first words to his or her parents, from a newly married couple's first gesture to a old couple sharing a lovable moment and so on are the few examples of how little moments matter and are not always are in fantasy and only in poetry. We just miss out tiny little moments which give away a lot of pleasure and joy with huge amount of contentment to our life. What we don't realize is though we know it that time never comes back, it moves ahead and waits for none, we still gamble and run behind money and success. I am not against anyone wanting to earn and have a larger life but it wouldn't hurt to share a moment and to appreciate the little things and joy of life the way it is. Poetry is nothing but what reality is, its just that we over look it. As i had said its the perspective. I don't know how many are smiling reading this at the end or gonna forget it but am sure its going to make a mark in your mind to value those moments if not consciously but subconsciously you will end up doing it. So here i am ending this on a lighter note value moments and be a reason for your loved ones or someone's smile each day, nothing more could give you that inner peace you would get.

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