Thursday, 3 April 2014

How Permanent Is Your Relationship ?

hey everyone am back with yet another blog post i.e., How Permanent Is Your Relationship?

Relationships are of different kinds be it with your parents, siblings, friends or your love life.

This question makes you jump to answer i have a secured relationship and no regrets or setbacks. But have you wondered with time how many people you have walked passed for their own or your own good. It is because you realize that everything isn't as permanent as it looks? Every person entering your life has a lesson for you, the good or the bad but for lifetime to remember. Some say it is not easy trusting again when it is broken, is it true? Off course it is. Everyone have their way of handling the pain where some choose to move on and some take time but life doesn't give a chance to wait. They say time and tide waits for none. Same way life keeps pushing you to let people enter your life without your consent. At each point every relationship is put to test but no one fails in it, but just realize how their point of view differs from each other. One is not wrong only because they don't share the same view space. Every individual is born with a mindset he shapes up with growing years. Some learn the good habits and some the bad ones, by choice or consequences.

For example, You have a happy childhood all along but as you grow the same parents presence pricks your eyes. Have you wondered why? Its not your mistake you see them that way, its your perspective with the new found world that changes you. Another example is that, a close friend who was always so jovial and loving suddenly changes to be the opposite. Have you wondered why? It is the circumstances and the change in attitude towards life and its lesson. No relationship is an excuse to live life or having people for the sake of it. Every relationship is a choice and they have the choice to leave but if they stay back or you want to make them stay back, it reminds of how important that relationship or person is in your life no matter who it is.

Ending on a lighter note, Take no relationship or person for granted. Every relationship may or may not be permanent but at the end of the day, your want for it, the way you nurture it, care for it and love it, hold it close to you heart makes every relationship worthwhile. Relationship makes you who you are and not what you wanna be in life. Truth lays in front of your eyes don't let it slip with the sands of time.

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