Hey everyone i'm back with yet another blog post but before that i have an amazing news to share with you'll, Life For Me My Way blog is not only read in India but across the globe too (ex:UK,USA,UAE,Pakistan,Qatar,Nepal and so on). Thank u one and all for the support and encouragement.
Now back to yet another prospective of life as i always say, Bonding with people is something we do with our choice and cherish it for a lifetime but some don't last with tide of time. But why? So here is the next perspective to know why- Forever Bond OR Forgotten Bond ?
As the titles goes forever bond or forgotten bond refers to one relationship which is close to everyone's heart and everyone has one special person or many to name - FRIENDSHIP.
Friendship is a bond we build since young age, be it with our siblings, parents, neighbors or the new people we meet. Friendship starts when we first enter our schooling life, new place, new people and the excitement to discover everything. As tender minds we search for solitude or say helping hand to hold us through this new found world. No matter how many years pass by no one forgets their first best friend, the bond we share. With years passing by, few continue to be in the same schools or colleges or some opt various opportunities but still be in touch with their old pals. There is no other feeling better than turning to your friends for solace. But there is another side of the story too as they say every coin has two sides, friendship has two sides of it too. There is one side where we laugh, we tease, we hangout, we have fun, do crazy stuff with our friends, and then there is another side with betrayal, misunderstandings, forgotten or distanced friendship too.
Wonder why?
How many of you'll are still in touch with your childhood buddies or the ones you made in college? If you are how many still hangout with them? Very few. With passing years we meet new people ,make new friends, we have a personal life as we call it which was once included with friendship too, misunderstandings or communication gap or say ego. Everyone has ego within them but with different interpretations of them according to psychology. At a certain point for say we have a misunderstanding or difference of opinion, our ego doesn't let us see the point that it's pointless to have argued, as no one understand us better than our own friends if we share our opinions more calmly. A simple sorry to mend the long lost friendship does it all. It is not because we are weaker or guilty but you know what that friendship meant to you before u chose to be apart and what importance they held in your life. No offence to the people who know some just don't know the value of this word in life. Apology and forgiveness not only mends relationships but sets you free from the emotional baggage. Friendship is the only bond we choose in our life to build, not like other relationships which are given to us by birth. Ask yourself is it worth it to forget it or have it forever? Are we so busy in our life not to spare a few moments to make them a part of our memory? Make new friends, meet people from every walk of life as we learn something new from everyone but don't forget the friend/friends who lay the foundation of friendship with you and make the friendship stronger with new found friends too. Everyone has a role to play in our life and friendship is one of the most important of them as we confide sorrows, share our joys and trust each other. We don't realize who comes to us as a helping hand, never forget what they did for you. All that they did was not for they had too but they always valued you as a person, a friend forever.
Ending this on a lighter note, Friendship grows as we grow. It's built with years of understanding, love and care. Don't let it break with a mere fight or misunderstanding. Friends are your reflections, they don't judge you but accept you the way you are and trust you without holding back. It is one relationship which is not restricted with religion, caste or gender. It's the selfless bonding that makes it worth it. Like a plant, grow it with care and you'll have a beautiful blossomed flower to hold in the end. Make it a forever bond and not a forgotten bond we pass with time. Make a beautiful movie of memories when you look back in time, which is without any negative aspects, or you'll end up never wishing to look back in life. Hope at the end i have made you go back to the time you have cherished the most and off course a smile in the end. :)
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Now back to yet another prospective of life as i always say, Bonding with people is something we do with our choice and cherish it for a lifetime but some don't last with tide of time. But why? So here is the next perspective to know why- Forever Bond OR Forgotten Bond ?
As the titles goes forever bond or forgotten bond refers to one relationship which is close to everyone's heart and everyone has one special person or many to name - FRIENDSHIP.
Friendship is a bond we build since young age, be it with our siblings, parents, neighbors or the new people we meet. Friendship starts when we first enter our schooling life, new place, new people and the excitement to discover everything. As tender minds we search for solitude or say helping hand to hold us through this new found world. No matter how many years pass by no one forgets their first best friend, the bond we share. With years passing by, few continue to be in the same schools or colleges or some opt various opportunities but still be in touch with their old pals. There is no other feeling better than turning to your friends for solace. But there is another side of the story too as they say every coin has two sides, friendship has two sides of it too. There is one side where we laugh, we tease, we hangout, we have fun, do crazy stuff with our friends, and then there is another side with betrayal, misunderstandings, forgotten or distanced friendship too.
Wonder why?
How many of you'll are still in touch with your childhood buddies or the ones you made in college? If you are how many still hangout with them? Very few. With passing years we meet new people ,make new friends, we have a personal life as we call it which was once included with friendship too, misunderstandings or communication gap or say ego. Everyone has ego within them but with different interpretations of them according to psychology. At a certain point for say we have a misunderstanding or difference of opinion, our ego doesn't let us see the point that it's pointless to have argued, as no one understand us better than our own friends if we share our opinions more calmly. A simple sorry to mend the long lost friendship does it all. It is not because we are weaker or guilty but you know what that friendship meant to you before u chose to be apart and what importance they held in your life. No offence to the people who know some just don't know the value of this word in life. Apology and forgiveness not only mends relationships but sets you free from the emotional baggage. Friendship is the only bond we choose in our life to build, not like other relationships which are given to us by birth. Ask yourself is it worth it to forget it or have it forever? Are we so busy in our life not to spare a few moments to make them a part of our memory? Make new friends, meet people from every walk of life as we learn something new from everyone but don't forget the friend/friends who lay the foundation of friendship with you and make the friendship stronger with new found friends too. Everyone has a role to play in our life and friendship is one of the most important of them as we confide sorrows, share our joys and trust each other. We don't realize who comes to us as a helping hand, never forget what they did for you. All that they did was not for they had too but they always valued you as a person, a friend forever.
Ending this on a lighter note, Friendship grows as we grow. It's built with years of understanding, love and care. Don't let it break with a mere fight or misunderstanding. Friends are your reflections, they don't judge you but accept you the way you are and trust you without holding back. It is one relationship which is not restricted with religion, caste or gender. It's the selfless bonding that makes it worth it. Like a plant, grow it with care and you'll have a beautiful blossomed flower to hold in the end. Make it a forever bond and not a forgotten bond we pass with time. Make a beautiful movie of memories when you look back in time, which is without any negative aspects, or you'll end up never wishing to look back in life. Hope at the end i have made you go back to the time you have cherished the most and off course a smile in the end. :)
If you like it, please do share, comment and follow for more :)
