Greetings and a warm hug to all my ardent and patient readers :) I'm extremely sorry for the delay once again.
I have few questions before I begin with what the name of the blog is all about and my perspective on it.
How many of you have a Secret CLOSET?
Or you never felt the need to have one ?
It's not about the clothes or other stuff you have kept as a secret am asking about. It's about your feelings, emotions or thoughts that you keep within yourself either for the fear of being judged or letting someone down or you are just plain scared.
CLOSET in the title means the enclosure we keep our FEELINGS, EMOTIONS or THOUGHTS guarded and "S" in the title is nothing but the SECRET or SECRETS we keep within ourselves for various reasons.
Our generation has so much at one click of a button but still have so much to keep guarded. Easy access to places, friends or family has made it so convenient not to meet them in person. We have lots of thoughts, feeling or emotions we keep within ourselves for the fear of rejection or made fun off and various other reasons. We lack the confidence to let ourselves free from the emotions or feelings like guilt, sad thoughts or any form of emotion. Some people find it difficult to share or portray even their happiness. Some people keep it so much to themselves that they without their knowledge turn aloof and find negativity in everything in life, slowly pushing through people and one day to stand alone and lost.
Why this fear of not being able to come OUT OF THE CLOSET and FREEING ourselves with the SECRETS?
I'm not saying our life is a public thing to discuss with all but there are times when you need to share things to people you are close to or make it as an experience in life. You are a better judge of yourself than anyone. You know within yourself that there are many things and times you feel like letting yourself freer of all that you have within yourself. It's not for others but for YOU. Free yourself from the guilt, burden of any kind that keeps you from moving on in life or hurt of any kind. Your feelings, emotions or thoughts are off course to be guarded, but trust them with whom you can share this and be rest assured it will always be enclosed. When we crib to carry even a little extra luggage for few minutes then how do you manage to carry all this weighing yourself down with it for a lifetime?
No one has the right to manipulate, play or judge your life. Do not let anyone dictate your life or let the feelings within yourself of you or any other person weigh you down to an extent you miss the nuances of life. There is enjoyment in the smallest things in life. We just fail to feel the fresh air cribbing about how it blurs our vision or spoils our hair.
Ending this on a lighter note, try to hear the sound of waves than the noise people create around, learn to breath in the fresh air of early morning than pollution of the later day, cherish the feeling of sand or grass underneath your feet than harsh grounds or just enjoy to be freer in the brightness of the morning than being crawled in the darkness of the night. Never forget YOUR SMILE, YOUR LAUGHTER, YOUR LOVE, YOUR CARE and YOUR LIFE is the most BEAUTIFUL GIFT you can ever give to YOURSELF:) .
If you LIKE it, please do SHARE, COMMENT and FOLLOW for more :)
I have few questions before I begin with what the name of the blog is all about and my perspective on it.
How many of you have a Secret CLOSET?
Or you never felt the need to have one ?
It's not about the clothes or other stuff you have kept as a secret am asking about. It's about your feelings, emotions or thoughts that you keep within yourself either for the fear of being judged or letting someone down or you are just plain scared.
CLOSET in the title means the enclosure we keep our FEELINGS, EMOTIONS or THOUGHTS guarded and "S" in the title is nothing but the SECRET or SECRETS we keep within ourselves for various reasons.
Our generation has so much at one click of a button but still have so much to keep guarded. Easy access to places, friends or family has made it so convenient not to meet them in person. We have lots of thoughts, feeling or emotions we keep within ourselves for the fear of rejection or made fun off and various other reasons. We lack the confidence to let ourselves free from the emotions or feelings like guilt, sad thoughts or any form of emotion. Some people find it difficult to share or portray even their happiness. Some people keep it so much to themselves that they without their knowledge turn aloof and find negativity in everything in life, slowly pushing through people and one day to stand alone and lost.
Why this fear of not being able to come OUT OF THE CLOSET and FREEING ourselves with the SECRETS?
I'm not saying our life is a public thing to discuss with all but there are times when you need to share things to people you are close to or make it as an experience in life. You are a better judge of yourself than anyone. You know within yourself that there are many things and times you feel like letting yourself freer of all that you have within yourself. It's not for others but for YOU. Free yourself from the guilt, burden of any kind that keeps you from moving on in life or hurt of any kind. Your feelings, emotions or thoughts are off course to be guarded, but trust them with whom you can share this and be rest assured it will always be enclosed. When we crib to carry even a little extra luggage for few minutes then how do you manage to carry all this weighing yourself down with it for a lifetime?
No one has the right to manipulate, play or judge your life. Do not let anyone dictate your life or let the feelings within yourself of you or any other person weigh you down to an extent you miss the nuances of life. There is enjoyment in the smallest things in life. We just fail to feel the fresh air cribbing about how it blurs our vision or spoils our hair.
Ending this on a lighter note, try to hear the sound of waves than the noise people create around, learn to breath in the fresh air of early morning than pollution of the later day, cherish the feeling of sand or grass underneath your feet than harsh grounds or just enjoy to be freer in the brightness of the morning than being crawled in the darkness of the night. Never forget YOUR SMILE, YOUR LAUGHTER, YOUR LOVE, YOUR CARE and YOUR LIFE is the most BEAUTIFUL GIFT you can ever give to YOURSELF:) .
If you LIKE it, please do SHARE, COMMENT and FOLLOW for more :)
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